Originally Posted by horatio
Showing your boss how angry you are is not particularly smart, you swallow down the anger and deal with it in another way. Is this unhealthy? Sure. Can it lead to neuroses. Definitely. But that's how culture works, you do not do it caveman style and immediately act upon all your nasty feelings but you control and suppression of raw emotions.
We're not talking about Spock's boss (who, by the way, he had just beaten the hell out of as a result of his misidrected anger, hence the discussion about controlling anger toward Nero). We're talking about a war criminal and genocidal maniac. Hitler x 1,000.
This was not a normal everyday situation. Every expectation has its exceptions. Not acknowledging a desire to see somelike Nero destroyed is denying the inevitable.