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Old 01-29-2010, 05:33 AM
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Originally Posted by horatio View Post
Perhaps she doesn't know what she wants or is simply shy? If you haven't seen each other for a long time, she might simply need some time. If you want something stable and not just some action, you should take the slow path anyway.
Nice and easy does it. Try not to be overly anxious, which should help her to be the same way, and let love (or like) flow. I've found the most important thing is communication. Express yourself honestly and take the time to listen to her. Assumptions will trip you on the path so be (resectfully) explicit with her. That way she won't have to assume your feelings, meanings or intentions. And don't be presumptuous with her; when in doubt, ask(again, respectfully).

It's gonna be alright, brother. You seem like an awesome guy.
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