Eris, been there! Glad you had sense enough to get out of it. I had a short term relationship with a girl once who basically manipulated me into being finacially dependant on her. It would have been okay, but she also felt that it gave her the right to run my life 24/7.
If it had been something we'd negotiated, it might have been enjoyable, but as it was it was a nightmare. I finally just walked out, abandoning a lot of my posessions in the process. Had to stay with friends while I looked for a new job and an apartment.
Number Two: Conform, Number Six! Conform!
Number Six: I will not be stamped, filed, indexed, briefed, debriefed, or numbered! I am a person.