Spokthecool. We should talk via PM. Since I live near you I think I know what things are like in your area.
It's okay to ask for advice regarding style and fashion, but ultimately you are the one that dictates your own style.
I was always a jeans and T-shirt kind of guy. I know for girls it can be a bit more complex, but you have plebty of options.
To secure the peace is to prepare for war. -Metallica