I see all your points and I agree with most of them.
The feeling I get from this trailer is, "Look at me I'm Star Trek I'm hip and cool now I'm just like 'The Fast and the Furious'.."
Which may or may not be the reality of it.
As far as the ship...I will reserve judgement until I see the whole film.
But, from the shot I'm looking at here...it looks like crap. TMP Enterprise is the best looking one imo. She's the true grey lady.