I totally agree with you. And saying that JJ Abrams "hated" Star Trek before he got involved with this movie is absolutely ridiculous. He NEVER said that. All he said basically is that he didn't care much about it, that's all. I love how some people over-exaggerate everything around here...
Uhura - "And here I thought you were just some dumb hick who only had sex with farm animals."
Kirk - "Well... not only..."